so long and thanks for all the shoes
Well, that’s it. I started this blog on July 11, 2009, and I’m ending it today,...
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Category: our wedding
the details, part three: photo line
At some point during the planning process we decided to — get this — take photographs...
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the details, part two: signs… of the times
Three weeks before the wedding, I suddenly turned to the beau and exclaimed: “Oh, shit! We’re...
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flattery gets you everywhere else but here
This one goes out to those two people who voted that they wanted to see only my most unflattering...
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Photography is a tricky thing.1 Photography is both art and science. It is record and story. It is truth and fiction. From the moment we enter the wedding planning world, we start to develop a love-hate relationship with...
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wait for it
We’d gone to bed the night before the wedding feeling broken and demoralized, and...
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good bad ugly
The last few months before the wedding were about treading water. What needs to be done right now?...
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three weeks later: regrets, i’ve had a few
Our friends from the Bay Area are getting married here in Santa Barbara today. This will be our first wedding as a married couple. And let me tell you, what a blessed relief it is to a attend a wedding as a guest. You mean all I...
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oh. my. god.
I had a hipster wedding after all. [departs to flap hands, babble incoherently, look through...
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